I've been a motae-solo until the age of 33 and got married afterwards
so I'm not super experienced but these are the know-hows I've learned so far

1. When you come back home, the first thing you say should be "pretty girl, I'm home"
You don't need to say anything else. Just say this, go in for a kiss and you can go shower right away

2. When eating dinner togeter, ask her "how was your day?" and nothing else. All you need to do is add these words and some words expressing excitement. Then, you'll be cleared on the amount of talks you'll need to do on that day

3. When gifting gifts or going out, it's not about how expensive or good the place or the things are, it's all about the amount. I'm not talking about going to an expensive place 1~2 times a year, the number of times you spend going on wals, going to cafes, to watch a movie, etc. is more important

You will have to go out with her at least 2 times a month for about 5~6 hours per time.

Even for gifts, it's not about gifting her a 3 million won bag that's important, even if it costs 10 thousand won, it's the number of times that counts. Also, you shouldn't give it to her on a specific day. You have to tell her that you got it for her because you were thinking about her.

Also, flowers are just pretty garbage but their effects are good.

Dry flowers, fresh flowers, lettering flowers, soap flowers, chocolate flowers, sugar craft flowers, etc. There are many things that can be used as interior props. It doesn't have to be a real flower.

4. If you're going to complain about the food/side dishes, tell her in advance what you want to eat
She will hate it if you complained about the food so tell her one thing you want to eat and head out. I usually tell her 2 times a week that I want to eat grilled mackerel, side dishes with vegetables, and side dishes with meat.

5. When you sit at the table, don't say "let's eat" but rather say "you worked hard". If you work 5 days a week, then at least try to cook one day on your resting day. You guys have to take turns resting on the weekend, otherwise, it will become unequal.

6. If your size isn't big, you can still learn the technique and send it out at least twice (T/N: I think OP is talking about doing that). Then, you can even ask her to bring you a drink or a cider and play on your computer for 2 hours and she won't even complain. You need to satisfy her first before satisfying yourself

7. If she's depressed, sad or mad, she eats something unconsciously. So you need to put that food on the table on that day and be careful around her.

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1. [+44, -3]
Were you really a motae-solo? You know women even better than they know themselvesㅋㅋㅋ

2. [+41, -3]
You know a woman's heart better than womenㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

3. [+35, -3]
I burst out laughing at #6ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ when you said you need to send it out twice and can even ask for a drink, it was freaking hilariousㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

4. [+24, -2]
Are you an engineering student..? You're stacking up the algorithm pretty well;;

5. [+20, -2]
The fact that you said you needed to satisfy her first before satisfying yourself was so good. But most of men don't have the size nor the skills and only look for satisfying themselves and finish. And once they're done, they just go "I can go play games now~" or "let's get some sleep~". That's 90% of men.

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