[marriage & in-laws] MY BOYFRIEND WHO ALWAYS ARRIVES EARLIER THAN THE AGREED UPON TIME AND WHO IS ALWAYS UNDERSTANDING


This hasn't happened only once or twice. Every time that we have a date, he always comes early.
At first, I liked that side of him since it's better than being late so I didn't think much of it.
But seeing him do that time after time, it makes me feel bad so what should I do about it?

Me: You waited a long time right~! You must be bored. Why did you come early?

Bf: It's been a little over 30 min so I'm indeed sli~~ghtly tired but I'm fine. Seeing your face made my irritation go away!!

Me: I also arrived 10 min before our date but... saying it like this makes me upset even when I arrived early. Please come on time next time!

Bf: I'm always like that when I meet my friends too~ I'm fine so don't mind it! Buy me something delicious instead

then from my point of view, I just innocently buy him something but I also feel like if I talk too long about this, we'll start fighting over it so I would just let it slide. But weirdly, I feel guilty about this and no matter how I try to explain my feelings to him, he seems not get it. It's kinda annoying me but he doesn't seem to have bad intentions and always treats me warmly so I don't think that he's trying to f*ck with me either. But why would he do that? If you're in a similar situation as me, please give me some advice

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1. [+379, -3]
Seeing how he said not to mind it since he's doing the same with his friends, I would've thought that it was just his habit. But the fact that he said to buy him food to make up for it suggests that he just wants you to pay for his meal

2. [+353, -2]
Isn't he arriving early just because he's broke? It's so funny how he washes his face, gets dressed, and runs at super speed just to get a free mealㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ I bet that he doesn't do that to his friends~ they would've stopped hanging out with him right awayㅋㅋ

3. [+318, -4]
Why are you acting so low about yourself...? I would've done this if I were you... it's his fault for arriving early and it's not like you were late so why apologize and buy him food...

4. [+313, -2]
Tell him next time, "Why arrive early? Then you should've planned the date 30 minutes earlier. Why waste his time like that?" And start arguing every time you meet. What are you even apologizing for?..

5. [+273, -5]
He's acting like that because you fell for itㅋㅋ "What wrong have I done? I like you so much that I arrived this early for you so why should I pay you back? What's worse is that your request is so strange~ Am I easy to you? I'm upset~" Tell him something like this. You guys must fight onceㅋㅋ You said that he understands and takes everything in so tell him that you're upsetㅋㅋ I hope it improvesㅋㅋㅋㅋ



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