"What should I do about my shopping addict girlfriend?"

She must buy whenever she wants something

Especially when it comes to internet shopping, she's really severe
Whether it's clothes, shoes, accessories, bags, etc. anything that tickles her fancy
She will buy it again even though she just did it the month ago, for example with shoes. 

If not, she will find an item that one of her friend would want to have
And she'll also fall for it and until the moment she decides to buy it, she'll beg me to buy it for her for weeks. 
Furnitures, props, lights, electros, you name it. 

I wouldn't say anything if she paid everything for herself
But she always asks me to get her gifts and it's honestly getting tiring. 
The prices range from 50-60,000won to 200-500,000 won ㅋㅋ ($40~$400)ㅋㅋ

And when I don't buy it for her, she'll do whatever it takes to buy it. 
Ah but I'm just so tired of hearing her say stuff like "I want to buy this so badly" "Can you buy this for me"
Why is she unable to have any self-control? This is getting so severe
Is shopping addiction unfixable?

Is it because she never got to have anything for herself when she was young and she became like that once she got older?
We're both at the age of contemplating marriage
Should I even marry a woman like her?

original post: here

1. This is indeed kinda severe... I know it can be hard to get rid of a thought once you really want to have something, but if you're easily swayed like that, your household income will crumble in an instant once you get married

2. You should definitely not marry her 

3. She's already a grown adult, imagine begging their lover to buy something for them for weeks... Even kids don't do this to their parents.. This is the way to a thorny road

4. Women like her want to meet men like you ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

5. I'm bipolar and I'm exhibiting the same symptoms as herㅋㅋㅋ That's indeed a disease

6. On a serious note, it sounds like a disease

7. Please run away fast

8. No but why are you even debating...? Just run fast

9. Run and don't even try to look back 

10. Instead of debating, use this time to break up with her. Your household finances will be ruined if you marry her

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