[theqoo] BTS RM'S HOT TAKE ON MARRIAGES

출산 보고 애국이라는 한국에서 여자들에게 쪼대로 사시라 외치는 알엠이 주는 감동 ㅁㅊ pic.twitter.com/RePjIZG2h2

— ㅇㄱ (@r23mw) October 5, 2025

I think when it comes to marriage, there's a lot of pressure, both from a time perspective and the realities of life. But especially for women, society and the media keep pushing pressure around things like having kids, and it really feels like that pressure is being forced onto us.

But honestly, I just wish people could live life at their own pace. I don’t think there’s a “right” answer. If you can't stand being alone, do you really think marriage will fix that? Because even after getting married, there might come a time when you want to be alone again, people are wishy washy like that. So I feel like someone who’s comfortable being alone is probably also going to be good at being with someone. And vice versa.

If you're just lonely and looking at marriage as an escape or a solution is a bit.... 

As for kids… honestly, I’m not sure. I already feel like it's overwhelming just taking care of myself, raising me, let alone another life. And you can't control how a child turns out. What if I had a kid like me? Thinking about how much trouble I gave my parents growing up? Oof~~! I'd hate myself so much. It's possible that they turn out super lovable but there's no straight answer. 

People who are married will naturally speak from the perspective of someone who’s married. And those who aren’t, the same .... Neither side truly understands the other. So I think we just have to take people’s stories as a case by case thing.

No matter how you look at it, in Korea, I think our generation, those of us born in the 90s, are the first ones to really see marriage as an option. So I believe we need to just follow our own choices.

I went a bit deep on the marriage topic, but it’s something worth talking about. Because how much content is there to talk about regarding our lives? Hobbies, travel, none of it has a right answer.

But I do think feeding your body and mind is important. Things like working out and reading can bring so much good into a person’s life. I'm not saying everyone must do it or that it's always good, no exceptions. But if there is something that's almost 100% beneficial, it's probably exercise and reading. Because those things don’t lie to you.

...That's why. I don't think getting married automatically make your loneliness disappear!

original post: here

1. He's right, I need to start working out and reading ㅠㅠ

2. He's right and he's cool!!!!!!!!!!!!!

3. It's nice to see that this guy keeps on improving himself. I honestly hope he stays healthy and happy for a long time 

4. People who read really are different

5. RM really seems smart

6. As expected from Kim Namjoon

7. You can see he thinks deeply, he's cool

8. He's likable 

9. The next president is you...RM...

10. Crazy, I applaud this

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