[teens stories] THIS IS WHAT I REALIZED AFTER DATING 7 TIMES

Girls who've especially been badly hurt after meeting real trash guys among Hannams, the sh*ttiest of the sh*ttiest of them, end up valuing kind, gentle guys who treat them well, even more than guys they're just intensely attracted to

But girls who've never actually dated a truly trash guy tend to have this weird fantasy. They say things like their boyfriend is "too nice so he's boring," or "not exciting," or "doesn't make my heart flutter ㅋㅋ They just don't seem to understand what's truly valuable.

The moment you date a real piece of trash, all that talk disappears instantly. This is literally my own storyㅋㅋㅋ...

Honestly, even if a guy is a bit boring, a kind man is still way better. Looking for "thrill" will just end up ruining yourself

post response:

[+82][-9]

original post: here

1. [+42, -4]

What I truly, genuinely agree with a thousand times is this: stop talking about "dopamine" and "excitement" and all that crap, and please just date a kind, gentle, emotionally stable guy who genuinely loves you. You think, "If that's the case, I might as well date a ridiculously handsome guy and just get hurt for his looks, no big deal, I'll still be happy, right?" No. Not at all. I'm saying this as someone who's dated a lot and gone through every kind of failed talking stage and trash situation imaginable. Cheating, rebound relationships, gaslighting, ghosting, I've experienced all of it. The people I'm honestly most jealous of are the ones who never had those things in their lives. The ones who always met good men and never had their lives wrecked because of a guy even once. People say this kind of stuff because they've never experienced how completely draining and dehumanizing it is

2. [+32, -9]

I feel like men who have a lot of money and who use their money well are the solution

3. [+18, 0]

Why date someone who's just nice but boring? Might as well not date at all... And if they're ugly or unpopular, you assume they're nice, but they actually have extreme inferiority complex, those guys are everywhere. You've never seen the abyss

4. [+16, -5]

Uhm... if you dated 7 times, you sound like you're crazy about men. Why are you writing this pretending to be all wise?

5. [+14, 0]

You need to be careful of the kids who are kind just on the outside

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