[marriage & in-laws] MOTHERS WHO DON'T WANT TO SEE THEIR DAUGHTERS SUCCEED


I've seen a lot of them.

There are actually a lot of books and research papers in psychology that explore why mothers act that way toward their daughters.

Seo Se-won's daughter said on a TV show, "My mom is the only one who's genuinely happy for my success," and the comments section was flooded with people saying, "My mom isn't like that'ㅎ 

My mom is like that too

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1. [+116, -23]
There's a lot them. There are more research papers on the competitive relationship between fathers and sons

2. [+94, -30]
It feels like Nate Pann is slowly turning into a garbage dump

3. [+82, -93]
Stop posting such crazy stuff. I've seen moms who hold their daughters back because they're afraid they won't amount to anything, but where have you ever seen a mom who doesn't want her daughter to succeed? Your kids need to do well so you can have a comfortable retirement. That's the dumbest thing I've ever read. I'm the daughter of a family with a son, but my mom used to nag me like crazy when I was little. Since I turned out to be way more ordinary than she expected, she's now apologizing and saying that if she'd been smarter, I would've turned out better. She apologizes all the time. What kind of mom gets jealous of her own daughter? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

4. [+80, -54]
This is because narcissists view their own children as competitors

5. [+61, -50]
My mom once told me that just because I like the house, the materials must be cheap. She didn't chip in a single penny when I got married. But, maybe she feels a twinge of guilt now and then, because depending on her mood, she'll go out of her way to act like she's being nice, even when I don't want it. When I tell her this is hard for me, she says it's harder for her, so I've given up on talking to her. If you don't understand this post, just go live your life thinking you're happy




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