[theqoo] THIS IS THE VIEW ON MARRIAGE OF PEOPLE IN THEIR 30S LATELY

Siwon: But nuna, I'm wondering about something

"Nuna, do you have plans on getting married?"

Yujin: *Taken aback* I think it's like this...

Yujin: I can't say that I'm against marriage and am a celibate but

Yujin: But, I can stay single if I can't find anyone to marry

Yujin: But I just think that someday I'd like to get married

Siwon: If there's someone that's worth marrying?

Yujin: It doesn't have to be this year or next year. If there's someone I like and that the timing is right, then I want to marry at that time

"The person is more important than the timing"

But really, everyone around me who's in their 30s all think this way

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1. But isn't that right? I mean, it's the military, right? Once you reach a certain age, you have to do it no matter what. On the other hand, the people who did it early did so because they wanted to, right?

2. This is the real deal. But most people think this way. They can marry if they want to so they wouldn't call themselves celibates

3. For real, I hope people can think about this carefully

4. All my friends also think this way

5. This is the right mindset. I'm thinking about getting married, but since I'm getting older, I can't just marry anyone, right?

6. Getting married... and living happily ever after would be ideal, but it's hard to stake your whole life on winning the lottery of a happy marriage, which is a long shot. So I figure I'll get married if I meet a good person and we're a good match, and if not, I'll probably just live on my own. That's why I say things like this. Also, since so many people attack you for being single, even if you're not in a relationship, you might not want to say you're a proponent of remaining single

7. If you just make any decision on a whim because of age, you'll for sure regret it

8. Wow, I I definitely agree with the post as well

9. That's right. I also wouldn't call myself a celibate but I don't have a "target" of getting married by n-year and to be honest, I am more leaning towards just staying single

10. I feel the same way. It's not something I have to do. I'd do it if I met the right person, and I'm not completely opposed to marriage. But I don't really want to go out of my way to look for a spouse. Even if I did get married, I don't want kids (I don't feel confident I could raise them well). I just want to hang out with someone who shares my values, have fun, and live a happy life until the end

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