(T/N: Assa/outsider = reject, people with no friends vs Inssa/insider = popular, people with lots of friends)

I feel like people around me all want inssas so that's why I wonder if that's why people gravitate around them and want to follow them. I thought that only people in their 20's acted this way? But seeing adults and elders, they also seem to like energetic and lively people. No but what I'm saying is obvious but if I can express myself more clearly, I just feel like people are more attracted by inssas? 

When I'm with my grandpa or my aunt, they always ask me "are you a good drinker?" and it kinda makes me feel like they want me to be good at fooling around??? Even my great-aunt, she said that while I'm an university student, I should get myself a boyfriend and my professors also like kids who are good drinkers. 

Seriously, this makes me a bit uncomfortable and makes me think that everyone must really like inssas. Everyon else in their 20's seem to go out for drinks and go for 2nd and 3rd rounds. Looking at others' Instagrams, I see them drinking out every day. But that's not the case for me. It has nothing to do with whether they are pretty or not, they all have boyfriends. It somehow feels like they are really living the life of people in their 20's. 

Maybe what I'm saying is a bit weird. Anyways, I also don't do things like transfer relationships either (T/N: you break up and rebound on someone else)ㅠㅠㅠ I do like handsome men and if I see them in real life, my heart flutters but that's it. I never try to put in more effort to talk to them or get closer to them. I just think "they are handsome, wow my heart is fluttering" and that's it. Aside from looking at men, I don't have any other point of contact with themㅋㅋㅋ...... What should I do? The thing that interests me the most right now is how to earn more money in the futureㅋㅋㅋㅋ큐ㅠㅠㅠ

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1. [+79, -3]
Just live the life as you are. There's a saying that goes 'If a crow follows a stork, its legs will be torn', why do you think it exists? Just try imagining an assa trying to be an inssa, the forced tension will be so obvious that people will be reluctant to be with you. Just be yourself, if you're not acting inferior, people will come to you. At that time, just be sure to treat them well

2. [+61, 0]
I hate this inssa culture and just thinking about it drains my energy so I hate it... I don't even wanna be like them

3. [+51, 0]
In our parents' generation, being introverted and having an introverted personality were considered problematic so that's why they act like that. It's not like OP is interested in such lifestyle and there's no need for you to match up to anyone else. Anyways, your older relatives are more interested in your nephews so you just need to agree to everything they say to their face and live the way you wantㅋㅋ

4. [+45, -1]
Wow f*ck, OP-yah, you're the same was me

5. [+37, -2]
There's no need to become an inssa anyways so just live the way you are~ you don't have to imitate anyone

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