[marriage & in-laws] AM I MENTALLY ILL?

My husband asked me to inquire about it so I'm writing this post.
Please be lenient on my typos.

I have a lot to say but I'll keep it short.

I'm working as a freelancer and I'm raising my 17 months old child.
My husband works 3 shifts but he also helps me with raising the kid and house chores (but I do most of it although I have no complaints)

The start of this was the folding of the laundry. I usually fold the laundry quickly (but not in a shabby way) so I can move on to other work but when my husband sees my messy laundry, he says that I slack off too much and that the way I fold laundry quickly makes me look like a mentally ill person.

By the way, my husband often folds the laundry in a careful way.

I'm curious about how people usually fold their laundry. I'm gonna apologize if I fold my laundry "like a mentally ill person" like my husband claims.

I'll attach some pictures for reference.

Thank you for reading. Have a good day everyone

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1. [+524, -4]
(Commenter is a man) I wonder if your husband is just the type of person who says unnecessarily harsh words? Or does he take his wife for a fool and is talking to you this way? You're raising your kid and is working at the same time so the way you fold your laundry is already good enough. Your husband seems like a crazy bast*rd

2. [+474, -3]
He's gaslighting you

3. [+448, -2]
He's calling you mentally ill just because of laundry folding? It's not like you were scattering your laundry everywhere so does it warrant your husband calling you mentally challenged just because you're not folding them to his standard? Next time, ask your husband to fold the laundry. I hope he apologize for treating you this way

4. [+315, -6]
Mentally ill??????????ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ you're putting up with the way he's treating you????? Why????? Ah am I in the wrong for acting this way?? Thinking about it you do seem mentally ill.... So what if you fold your laundry like that? My husband folds his laundry army-style and my way of folding the laundry is even worse than yours but he never says anything about it..

5. [+301, -1]
It can't be helped if you're busy.. what's with this "mentally ill" bullsh*t?... Your husband seems like the one who's mentally ill

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