[theqoo] THERE ARE MORE PEOPLE WHO DISAGREE WITH THE FIRST BORN VS MAKNAE TREATMENT THAN I THOUGHT

 
Q: The best position to have is? The first born VS the maknae

A: Maknae (+2)

A: (From a maknae's point of view) The maknae has less pressure than the first born

Q: The best position to have is? The first born VS the maknae

(Both of them choose the first born)

A: Somehow, no matter what they say, I'm the first born so my parents have already experienced raising me. So the second born is limited by the foundation that was set while raising the first child

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1. I'm the maknae and I'm satisfied with it. There is definitely less expectations on me than on the first bornㅇㅇ the first born in our household has always been good at studying so rather than making me study more, my parents have that "you can do whatever you want" mindset towrads me so I feel like I'm living a much more comfortable life? Ah also, the best thing is that I'm the one deciding on what to eat at restaurantsㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

2. I'm the maknae and I like being the maknaeㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ I feel like I'll be so pressured being the first born

3. I'm the first born and I straight up want to be the maknae

4. Being the first born means that your parents are also being a first-time parent so they will have to go through a bunch of trial and errors. I do receive a lot of love and support but at the same time, it's not really the type of love and support I wanted. When I was a student, there was a time I got really sick but didn't score the results my parents wanted and they told me that I didn't deserve to be sick. I was so hurt.. I learned when I was an adult that people usually don't get 39-40 degrees fevers. My temperature was this high back then but I still wasn't allowed to go to the hospitalㅋㅋ

5. Maknae

6. Straight up the maknae

7. After having raised kids, the maknae. They have less expectations and are seen so prettily. It's not just about being pretty but it's different

8. Maknae without a doubt

9. I'm the first born and there's nothing especially good or bad but personally, you get shoved with all the love, support but also expectations and pressure...

10. I'm the first born and I want to live as the maknae. The expectations between the first born and the maknae are just different. Even if we're given the same task, people are so much more generous when it comes to the maknaeㅠㅠㅠㅠ



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