Teacher nim, I'm XXX's mother. I heard about my daughter's concerns. I'm reaching out for no other reason than my daughter said that teacher was a bit difficult and scary.
When you speak, try to make some effort to speak more kindly and softly rather than bluntly. I think it would be nice.
Also, I would like to ask you to speak in this way regarding requests, can you use "~해줘" ("please do" but informal) or "~해주겠니" ("can you do it?" but informal) instead of just "~해" ("do it" but informal).
(Actually whenever I do groceries with my daughter, I would never ask her to run errands for me.)
Also, teacher said to my daughter "You still don't get it?" and she got so hurt. Rather than saying it like that, please say "Let's try to do it better next time". My child is still in elementary school so her self-esteem is low. Please be more careful.
My child is very special being to me. I still sleep with my daughter and we go out every weekend just the two of us. My parents passed away and my relationship with my blood brother has been rough.
And I also broke ties with the child's father (Because of the father, I can't even meet my school friends either. I only have my daughter as my reason to live. That's why I dared to write such inconveniencing words to you. Please understand. I'm huan. I'm a lacking person, so that's why I became like that.)
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1. Mother-nim, the teacher is also someone else's daughter... Please breath a bit
2. This was all sorts of TMI
3. Honestly, I feel like she deserves to say this.... Usually teachers who say things like "you still don't get it?" are not good teachers
4. I do feel like the teacher needs to learn how to speak more refinely if she really said "You still don't get it?"
5. Then you go teach your own kid~
6. "Very special being" ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ If your daughter was such a special being to you, then just go raise your precious daughter by yourself and baby her all your life ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ The TMI was way oto much too
7. Isn't the teacher also weird for talking to the kid like that?
8. I feel like it's fine..? The teacher's words were indeed a bit hurtful
9. There's a 99% chance that the kid was exaggerating the story just like the way the mom talks
> ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ For real I don't believe her at all ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
10. Just reading this text, my head hurts
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