"The reason why it's nice to get married at 21y'o and have a baby"

"1. I'll be 40 y'o when he first becomes a college student!"

"2. I'm raising him when my physical abilities are still good, so it's not hard on my body

"3. When I bring my son to school, people ask me if I'm his nuna"

"4. We communicate well with our generational gap"

"5. I have lots of time for self-management"

"6. The kids look prettier and cuter"
"1. I'll be 40 y'o when he first becomes a college student!"
"2. I'm raising him when my physical abilities are still good, so it's not hard on my body
"3. When I bring my son to school, people ask me if I'm his nuna"
"4. We communicate well with our generational gap"
"5. I have lots of time for self-management"
"6. The kids look prettier and cuter"
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1. [+64, -8]
Seriously if you were truly happy, there wouldn't be any need to flaunt it on SNS like that. This is just my opinion, but whenever I see people go "I'm so happy" when they have a kid so young, it just feels like they're trying so hard to prove something. They don't come across as happy
2. [+47, -5]
Still, you can't get your 20s youth back... You should be spending your time travelling, challenging yourself dating, etc. in your 20s.. The best thing is to just get married and have children when the time is right
3. [+28, -2]
I had a child at 25 y'o and my advice is... Go slower.. Anyways, having a kid in your 20s, 30s, and 40s are all hard.. It's better to preserve your youth... Don't just do it because you can
4. [+28, -1]
But why are there so many posts secretly encouraging marriage and childcare or disparaging single women on women's forums, but not on men's forums like DC Inside?
5. [+25, -1]
Fact) While mothers in their 20s who are still young are at home, single women are traveling ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
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