[theqoo] OUR FRIEND WHO SAID SHE DIDN'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND REVEALED SHE'S HAD A BOYFRIEND

"She said they've been dating for 400 days now. If you were me, would you cut ties if someone suddenly told you they had a boyfriend like that? .. What part makes you feel hurt? It looks like our group is about to fall apart because of this incident...."

- Why would you break ties over this? 

> (OP) Because I'd be sad ㅠ I don't want to break ties over this but ㅠㅠ

> You're f*cking sensitive...

- I wouldn't necessarily break ties, btu it's more like, I wouldn't feel like we're close anymore?

- I suppose you could choose not to say anything, but isn't saying you didn't have any lying...? Just have an open talk with that friend to see if it's a situation they can understand...

- If you asked if she had a boyfriend and she said no, I’d probably be a bit hurt because she lied. But if you never asked and she never said no... Maybe she's just not the type to say anything

- Is there a reason to keep a secret away from you for over a year? She doesn't seem to be a close friend 

- I'm not just talking about the boys talk stuff, but she's been hiding something from you for over a year so it seems like she's a bit devious. I could get it if they've started dating not long ago, but this... 

> This is it

> This is it, it's not just about boys talk 

> And you don't need to talk about boys, it's more like, you never once mentioned your boyfriend for an entire year

original post: here

1. If someone lies even about something as basic as whether something exists or not, can you really call them a friend? ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ She claims it’s a private matter, but if you’re going to lie to a friend about your private life, why even be friends? Just networking for future use?

2. Let's look at this objectively, doesn't this mean that the boyfriend is a total piece of work? Or maybe he's already married

3. If someone lies about not having a partner after dating for over a year, they aren't even fit to be an acquaintance

4. Since my best friend is like that too, I just figured they didn't want to talk about their dating life, so I don't think much of it

5. At first, I thought, "Well, maybe she just didn't mention it," but when I realized it had been 400 days, I saw that she just didn't bring it up. So she's actually been deceiving OP for all this time

6. You don't need to cut her off, but I'm sure you won't forget this 

7. If you're really close, why lie about a man? It's giving she wants to keep her man to herself and she's boy crazy

8. Look at it the other way, I bet the guy is also wondering why she hid him from her friends all this time...ㅋㅋㅋ ㅠㅠ I understand OP's feelings.. 

9. No matter what the reason is, it doesn't change the fact that this is your friend

10. I did cut off friends in the past who would withhold information like that 

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